Rewrite the Love Story You’ve Been Sold

We grew up with fairytales—the scripts that shaped how we see love, relationships, and ourselves.

♦️Men lead. Women follow.
♦️Be desirable, but not too available.
♦️Your worth? Measured by whether you’re chosen.
♦️If love is hard, it must be real.
♦️Don’t have real needs, desires, or boundaries. Play hard to get.
♦️A good relationship should complete you. 

These aren’t just stories. They’ve wired our desires—what we crave, what we chase, what we accept. Even when we know better. Even when we think we’ve outgrown them. 

Here’s the paradox:

You can be deep into self-love, self-development, self-care—and still be drawn to these stories.

Still turned on by dominance, pursuit, the chase.
Still pulled toward the very narratives you know don’t serve you.

That’s your internalized fairytale at work—quietly shaping what excites you, what feels like love, and who you crave.

And that’s where Romance-As-Kink comes in

Instead of living out these disempowering narratives on autopilot, this Playbook brings them to the light—so you can play with them, instead of being played by them. 

🔥 Want to feel swept away and surrendered—but also powerful and in control? You can have both.
🔥 Crave the thrill of romance—without the heartbreak? Learn to play with it so you don’t live by it.
🔥 Turn societal narratives into your playground—not your prison.

This method borrows from the world of kink, where people safely explore "taboo" desires in intentional, structured containers—a practice research has shown to be deeply healing and transformational. 

🔥 Romance-As-Kink is here to do just that—heal and transform.